Ann Free Spirit Cancer

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My husband Brian was to go through many a cancer operation on his face, hands and body, this started in the 1990s on his lip and then it was his forehead twice, the first one was a little one. I was outside the room, when I saw the Dr. come out, he was all coved in blood so I asked him how Brian was and he told me OK, but I had to see Brian for myself and then Brian came walking out and said “Come on now home we go.”

He told me that he was put into twilight sleep and that when they went over the parts which they had not numb, it really hurt him and he was to go back again because they had not got it all. So one month later Brain was called to go up to the hospital for the next operation and I made sure that I was there, I told them that they had to put Brain out to it and that they did not have to listen to Brian telling me about hearing the cuts and seeing all the blood when the Dr. accidentally cut the wrong artery. Brian saw all the blood and told me that it came out like a hose. I told them that they were not going to put my husband through that again.

Well you should have heard the female Dr. who was going to ad mister the anesthetic for Brian and told us that he did not need to be put out for a head operation which would be much bigger than the first one, it was three inches long and they were going to cut out deeper and longer this time round, so four inches deep and six inches long. Brian said Mum it will be alright, they will put me into twilight sleep and I will not see or hear anything this time. I said, "No Brian, it will be worse because they are going deeper and longer, so you do need to sleep through this one.

Oh! No says I, to the Dr. you are not married to Brian, you do not know my husband,. He feels brave now, while talking to you but when he gets home it is another story. You are to put him to sleep, so he can not hear the cuts or see the blood and then if you have to go deeper he will not know anything and I think that it will be best for him to be put out with the anesthetic also because of his heart. Oh Dear, She sadly said, right we will see you next week. Brian was so please when we left the hospital and told me I was right as he was so scared at the first operation and this was why he did not say much to the Dr.

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